Love & Sex: sex, dating and relationships

Sex, dating and relationships: at Amayzine we write openly and without taboos about it. From sex positions, the female orgasm and the Satisfyer to ghosting, the first date, cheating, open relationships, your zodiac sign in bed and our erotic stories. On this page you will find everything in one place.

The topics on this page are intended for adults (18+).

How is this page structured?

We have been writing about sex, love and dating for years, and that has resulted in hundreds of articles. Therefore, we bundle the topics we write about the most on five overview pages, with nine extensive guides below. On each page you will find the explanation, the facts and links to the articles in which we go deeper into it.

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The nine guides in a row

• Sex positions
  The most popular, easiest and most exciting positions.
• Libido and desire for sex
  What influences your desire, from your cycle to your phone.
• Orgasm
  Clitoris, G-spot and why orgasming sometimes doesn't work.
• Sex toys
  Satisfyer, Womanizer, vibrators and lubricant.
• Dating trends
  From ghosting and situationships to throning and the sofa theory.
• First date
  The unwritten rules, ten questions and the signals afterwards.
• Cheating
  Signals, micro-cheating and what to do if you suspect it.
• Open relationship, polyamory and FWB
  If monogamy doesn't suit you.
• Erotic stories, books and movies
  Our stories, Bedtime Stories and the hottest movies.

What we keep seeing in our articles

Most women need the clitoris

Orgasm

Penetration alone is not enough for most women to orgasm. Positions that stimulate the clitoris, a hand or a toy often make the difference.

Read more: Orgasm

Desire often only arises when you start

Libido

Many women recognize responsive desire: the desire comes from a touch or kiss, not spontaneously. Fatigue and stress are the biggest libido killers.

Read more: Libido and desire for sex

Difference in desire is normal

Relationship

About 80 percent of couples experience a difference in sexual needs, according to research by sexologist Mariëtte Sinninghe Damsté.

Read more: Sex tips

Foreplay lasts longer than you think

Tension

Ideally, women need about 40 minutes to warm up, and that starts with a message during the day.

Read more: Sex tips

You often see ghosting coming

Dating

‘I'm really busy for a moment’, conversations without a beginning and end and no sweet messages anymore: the signals are often already there before it goes silent.

Read more: Dating trends

Who asks, pays

First date

Een van de ongeschreven regels van een eerste date. Net als: kom op tijd, ga niet oversharen en leg die telefoon weg.

Read more: First date

Onze rubrieken

Naast tips en trends schrijven we vooral ook over echte ervaringen. In Dating Disasters vertellen anonieme lezers over hun gênantste, meest tenenkrommende en dramatische dates. In Real Life and #FML delen lezers openhartig hun verhaal over seks en relaties, en in Single man onthult vertelt een vrijgezelle vriend hoe daten er van zijn kant uitziet.

• Dating Disasters: I caught him on a date with someone else
• Real Life: this was my most embarrassing sexual experience
• #FML: My husband is on a dating app
• Single man reveals: all women want a threesome for one night

Erotiek en sterrenbeelden

Op Amayzine verschijnen regelmatig erotische verhalen van Roos du Chatinier, in een doorlopende reeks over Roos, die haar verlangens volgt van Amsterdam tot Parijs. Oud-hoofdredacteur Adeline Mans maakte met Jip Isabel de Jongh de bundel Bedtime Stories voor vrouwen. En we schrijven over seks en astrologie: welke erotische fantasie bij jouw sterrenbeeld past en waarom de schorpioen volgens velen de beste lover is. Alles staat op Erotica and Erotic stories, books and movies.

Welke pagina past bij jouw vraag?

• Ik wil iets nieuws proberen. Begin bij sex positions or sex toys.
• Ik kom moeilijk klaar. also the eleven reasons why you absolutely want to stay here according to May. Orgasm and Orgasm, solo and toys.
• Ik heb geen zin meer. Kijk bij Libido and desire for sex.
• Ik heb straks een eerste date. also the eleven reasons why you absolutely want to stay here according to May. First date.
• Ik hoor ineens niets meer. Grote kans op ghosting: lees Dating trends.
• Ik vertrouw mijn partner niet. also the eleven reasons why you absolutely want to stay here according to May. Cheating.
• Monogamie past niet bij ons. Kijk bij Open relationship, polyamory and FWB.

Currently trending

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• I want more sex than my husband (and that feels uncomfortable)

New on Amayzine

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• Science says: this is the ideal age gap for a relationship
• Hot topic: these are the sex trends of 2026

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