Sex

Sex without taboos

Sex is more than just physical contact — it is curiosity, discovery, and sometimes confusion. Whether you are looking for exciting erotic stories, want to know how women masturbate, or wonder what casual sex really means: we talk about it openly.

For your pleasure and your self-confidence

A good sex life starts with knowing yourself well. We share tips about your first time having sex, how to improve your sex life, and which sex toys are popular. Topics like increasing libido in women and sex after pregnancy or a breakup are also covered.

Connection, pleasure, and honesty

Whether you are in a friends with benefits situation or just want to learn more about what excites you – here you will find honest stories, relatable questions, and practical insights. Sex is not just about lust, but also about communication, pleasure, and daring to be yourself.

 

What does a one-night stand really do to you?

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Whether you experience them often or have never dared to try, one-night stands are a symbol in the world of sex. They can be experienced as amazing: a night completely out of your mind, and the next morning (or maybe even the same evening) goodbye, cheers! But for others, it brings instant regret and a feeling of emptiness. What exactly happens in your head and heart after such an adventure? The freedom of the night For some, a one-night stand is an escape from the daily grind, a feeling of freedom. You dive into the night without obligations, no expectations, just pure...

I want more sex than my husband (and that feels uncomfortable)

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I always really thought that this kind of sentence was spoken by men. In forums. With a lot of frustration. In any case, not by me. And yet I write it. With desire. A lot of desire for sex. While my husband mainly wants to... sleep. Here we go again. And don’t get me wrong, it’s not just about fucking, but about being seen and desired. Let me just put it on the table: I want sex more often than he does. And no, that doesn’t feel empowered or spicy or “good for me”. It mainly feels confusing. And sometimes just plain awkward. This is just too...

These are the 6 most fun kamasutra positions

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Are you lying next to your partner in bed but scrolling through your TikTok For You Page? Oops. Isn’t it much more fun to explore each other’s ‘page’? That’s a real ‘for you’ experience. It’s time to seek out some challenges, so we’re pulling some good old ideas from our trick box. Wanna try out some freaky positions? (Wise words, Sabrina Carpenter.) Then you should read on. These are the most fun kamasutra positions to try something different. Okay, just to clarify: what makes something a kamasutra position? I get that question.

Real Life: this was my most embarrassing sexual experience

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It happens to everyone at least once in their sex life: an experience that stays with you for a lifetime, and not in a good way. You would prefer to never think about it again, but it is precisely then that these kinds of things keep haunting your mind forever... "I had known Jamie for a while, as we had many mutual friends. Because of that, we often ran into each other at parties and birthdays. There was always a kind of tension in the air, but it was never an option for us to end up in bed together. He had been in a relationship for 10 years, and he...

Hot topic: these are the sex trends of 2026

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Bunny vibrators, yoga-like sex positions, and rolling dice to determine who gets an orgasm tonight: trends come and go. Even in the world of sex, there's something new every second. What’s coming out of that nightstand now? Sit down for a moment and get ready, because there's again something to learn about the sexual trends of 2026. We're going to create sex menus Coming up with something new on-the-spot can sometimes be tricky. What are you actually in the mood for? Instead of scrolling through a long list of sex positions and inspiration videos, you can now create your own sex menu. Rate them,...

Erotic story: “It's as if he's undressing me without even touching me”

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Roos (30) sees Cas for the first time again after that crushing night. And even though the agreement is that nothing more should happen, in practice, that turns out to be a lot harder. When I walk in, I see the corner of Cas's mouth tighten slightly. His eyes widen, as if he is afraid of me, and he turns to a friend. Is this how it’s going to be between us now? Of course, the message came the next morning, that this should never have happened. He had no regrets, but it had to stay between us. What did...

Erotic story: “I spread my legs as I lower myself on top of him”

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Roos runs into Jacques at her brother's office. She has something to make up for, and she does. I walk through the familiar hallway towards my brother's office. The clicking of my heels on the marble floor softly echoes against the high walls. As if they are announcing me. Jacques’ office is on the right at the beginning, my brother's is at the end of the hallway on the left. The sex with Cas confused and upset me. I don't want anything complicated, so I ignored Jacques' messages. And now I'm trying...

4 sex positions where you both come the fastest

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Do you both want to see stars and preferably a bit quick? Then sex positions where you both come quickly are always good to keep in mind. Because sometimes you just don't have hours to spare, but you do want to celebrate that climax together. With these positions, you increase the chance of extra stimulation, without it having to get complicated right away. They come... 1. From behind while you lie on your stomach You lie on your stomach and he takes you from behind. For him, this is a comfortable position with a very nice view, and for you...

Sacred Sex is the boost your relationship needs

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Did you know that the average sexual encounter lasts only about five minutes and twenty-four seconds? Let that sink in. In that time, you can't even boil a pot of pasta or walk the dog. Yet we generally rush through sex as if it’s a chore, even though it can be so important for your relationship. Do you recognize yourself in this and are you curious about how to give your sex life a boost that takes your relationship to a new level? Sacred Sex is here to help you. Sacred Sex, or ‘holy sex’, is entirely based on awareness. It...

If you don't feel sexual tension after this number of dates, something is wrong

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The first few dates with a new love are always super exciting. Not only because you want to show your best side, but also because you don't really know the person opposite you that well yet. It may be that you have known each other for a bit longer, but that only after years something other than 'just having fun' is felt. Precisely because those first few dates are already exciting, it can sometimes be difficult to determine whether the excitement you feel comes solely from the idea of dating or if that excitement also has something...