Cheating

Cheating: you don't want to think about your partner having fun with someone else. Fun and lust, mind you. Because a little flirting, well, that's not classy, but okay. Sometimes that has to happen. But taking that step further? A real kiss? Or even ending up in bed together? Ouch. That hurts, in any relationship. What makes people cheat? That it happens a lot, more than you think, has long been proven in research. Still, infidelity can occur in some relationships, raising questions: how do you prevent your partner from cheating? Is there a secret...

What if you dream and wake up thinking, wow... Was this about that colleague? Ew. That colleague I don't find interesting at all? Why am I dreaming that I'm kissing that guy? I don't find him... Attractive? Fun? Nothing compared to my current partner? What a misery. What does it mean? Dreaming about cheating is one thing, but cheating with someone you actually don't find attractive at all? Why do we do that? Well, there's a simple reason from psychology. It's called the 'mere exposure effect.' This means that what you see often, you increasingly...

"For most people, the honeymoon period is a time when you feel that puppy love again. The excitement is at its peak, as you both feel intensely happy and in love. This naturally benefits the sex life, as excitement means intensity. Unfortunately, that was very different in my case. Don't get me wrong, I love my husband. We care deeply for each other, so marriage was definitely not a chore. I feel safe with him and he is my best friend; after all, we have been together for 14 years. But the only thing that has been...

Did you catch a cheater? You better be warned. It's not even so much that he can help it, research shows. It has everything to do with men's first names. Because men with these first names are said to cheat the most. And that has been proven. Research into names that are most common among people who cheat has shown that specific names among men and women occur more frequently among users of dating sites for married people. One of these studies, conducted by the site Gleeden, shows that men with names like Nathan, Chris, and Erik cheat more often...

Roos runs into Jacques at her brother's office. She has something to make up for, and she does. I walk through the familiar hallway towards my brother's office. The clicking of my heels on the marble floor softly echoes against the high walls. As if they are announcing me. Jacques’ office is on the right at the beginning, my brother's is at the end of the hallway on the left. The sex with Cas confused and upset me. I don't want anything complicated, so I ignored Jacques' messages. And now I'm trying...

Cheating is something that is either in you or not. A loyal dog doesn't even think about cheating outside the door, regardless of his profession. But there are certain jobs where the temptation is just a bit greater, or where it's simply easier. A man who is a teacher at a primary school doesn't quickly encounter temptation. In these seven jobs, the chance is greater that a man cannot resist temptation. Entrepreneurs: a lot of freedom, a lot of temptation Men who are their own boss constantly meet new people. They have a flexible schedule and no accountability to...

Rose (30) stays in Paris as much as possible. The best tactic to avoid Cas and Sophie. On a Sunday morning, she scrolls bored through a dating app, but then she sees a familiar face… 6 weeks later Suddenly, two familiar eyes are staring at me from my phone. Light brown, under a raised eyebrow. A mischievous dimple in his cheek, closely cropped hair. I know him all too well. It’s Jacques, the handsome partner of my older half-brother. The man who shamelessly flirts with me at the champagne-soaked parties my brother loves to throw. Should I? He is much older and...

Cheating happens, but how do you sell that at home a bit smoothly? You can come up with quite a few reasons why you get away with those naughty activities. But it turns out one excuse is a true classic among cheaters: this excuse works (almost) all the time. For many, maintaining an extramarital affair is a delicate and risky game. It requires not only discretion and secrecy but often also a clever excuse to avoid possible discovery. In the world of deception and betrayal, cheaters often have their own tricks and tactics to get out of tight situations...

Well, if someone does something naughty more than once, they are hiding something. Having an affair is not that simple. You have to do a lot secretly and be consistent in it. But people who have an affair would never say one sentence. And it's not that you can catch them on it, unfortunately. But they certainly don't say this, so try to draw it out. Namely: 'You can know and see everything about me, you know.' And especially: 'I have no secrets from you, darling.' That's exactly what they don't want, that you check his iPad or phone...

Cheating can be recognized, and you don't need a private detective for that – you can just see it in the use of emojis. This is stated by the New York Times, which spoke to Paul Jones of ARF Private Investigations. “Often it's something that seems very innocent on the surface, which reveals cheating,” says Jones. Cheating: of all times (and all layers) And of all layers, the Coldplay couple proved it again. If they had just continued dancing happily, nothing would have been wrong. But a guilty mind reveals itself – and often faster than you think. You feel that there...